Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Long Distance Love ??

Cintaa Jarak Jauhh ..
tetibe datang idea nak buat entry ni .
tapi, copy and paste saje.
ahahah! merepek sajer! ^^
for sure, boleh buat modal anda-anda menggodek belog saia ini. =)

Do the following to make your Long Distance Love Relation work

Rethink on the aspects to make the relation stronger.
You may ponder on the very important aspect of the relation- are you both clear on the parameters you have set to make the long distance relation work. In other words, both of you should follow the rules and regulations of maintaining a healthy relation. Chart out relationship standards for each others.

Use Video Chat.
In a long distance relation keeping in touch with each other is very important. You need to send E-mails to each other, call each other and send SMS (short messaging services) frequently. In the present times, the Skype Video chat is very useful for augmenting long distance love.

Do similar activities at the same time.
When people are in the same geographic location- they watch movies together, have dinner together. Even in long distance relations you can do the same. You may decide which movie to watch and do so at the same time at two locations separated by distance. You both may order dinners at different locales and have it at the same time. Speak over phone, use webcam or Skype- whatever makes you feel the presence of the other person beside you.

Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible.
This is very important. You may even write snail mails or send cards by post. You love interest will surely be elated and store them. Viewing these cards at regular intervals gives the feel of love in the mind of the receiver for the giver. You may make call, chat and so on. Keep the channels.

The long distance relation offers certain advantages.
Yes, if you and your heart-beat are separated by distance- you probably will not have quarrels over small matters like toothpaste caps, which activity to do when. You can devote more time to your other relations- family and friends. You can give each other time and space.

You can pursue common interest at different places.
If you both have similar interests you may practice it at your own location. You will find enough matter to discuss and keep interesting conversation going on.


Please do not try to control each other.
If you try to dictate and make the other person do what you want you will be creating pressure on the other person. In this way you may scare him or her away from you. You of course do not want this to happen. Let him or her do whatever he or she is comfortable doing. Avoid jealousy. Be trusting.

Try to challenge each other.
This means you should try to surprise each other by making calls at unexpected (of course not wrong) times. Send gifts. You may also learn preparing new dishes to satisfy the taste buds of your loved one, when you both meet next. Utilize the time to make your future interesting and rosy.

Why not discuss about your conjugal future?
You may speak on how you propose to spend your life when you two come together. This will make you both feel secure about your future. You will also know what is going on in the mind of your partner.

Remember but do not be obsessed with each other.
Well, let your loved one linger in your thoughts often but not always because then you will be disturbed in your daily work. You are staying away from each other due to some cause. Let not that cause be unsuccessful. Then the pain you both bear by staying apart will be futile.

Visit often.
Whenever you get chance or time- you may travel to meet your partner. Both of you should take turns to visit each other. This is really very heartening and pacifying in a long distance relation.

Be positive. Be happy.
You are one of those blessed ones who have found love in life. This thought by itself is very satisfying. Enjoy the bliss of a conjugal life, even at a distance.

Personal objects can be given as gifts to each other.
If you give items of your daily use- your loved one will feel your presence. Try this and see the difference. The same will happen if you are gifted with such an item.

Use long distance love quotes.
This is the best way to make your loved one feel that you love him or her. There are many popular appropriate poems to convey what you feel for the moment. It is advisable that you have a store of love quotes written by famous people.


moral of the story, do practise those. If God wills. ;)
renung-renungkan dan selamat beramalll.
assalamm, =))

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